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Originally Posted by redsox4evur |
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Read his book last week. Very good book and too many cringe-worthy stories inside.
At the end of the book, he goes back to speak with a lot of his youth coaches to ask if they saw any signs of the abuse and if they did, why didn't they speak out.
All the coaches but one said they knew he was being abused in some shape or form, but only 1 of those coaches accepted all the blame - the Ice Dogs assistant coach.
He said he should have known better and should have done more.
The scary part was, he was a youth worker for abused children. yikes.
But this man did make up for it in a way because it was him that helped counsel Patrick after he broke free from his dad.
Agreed on all fronts.
Kids need to have more unsupervised play. That's where they learn most of the skills that make them great athletes.
I remember playing countless forms of baseball with my older brothers growing up.
We'd also play football and some road hockey too.
I think the problem with that today is two-fold:
1. Most kids would rather sit inside in a comfy, climate controlled house, with a 70" tv and gaming console. And too many parents (me included) allow it too much.
There's no incentive to go outside and play with friends - another thing that's allowed less and less due to fear of kidnappers, etc.
2. The kids are too busy playing organized sports.
My 8YO son played travel ball this year where he was on the field nearly 90 times in 4 months.
There were stretches where we'd be on the diamonds 5 out of 6 days or 9 out of 12.
He enjoys baseball but that nearly killed all his interest in the game.
He started playing soccer that spring too and instantly fell in love. Only on the fields 2x a week, no strict instruction - just run and play.
He's told me he only wants to play rec ball this Spring and concentrate more on soccer.
While baseball is my favourite sport and I think it's the sport he's best at, I'm all for it.
I'd be lying if I said I don't want him playing travel ball again, but I barely got to enjoy hanging out with him and his older brother, just playing catch in the backyard.
I want that back. And if that means 'only' rec ball (they're all headed to slowpitch as adults anyway), then I'm fine with that. As long as he's still playing, I'll be happy.
OFFTOPIC:
redsox4evur, you're in sports management?
I noticed our local college just started offering a 3-year program. Man I would have loved something like that when I was in college.
I'm 41 now and it's way too late to go back. Plus, who knows where I'd have to go in order to get a job in the field.
But I would have loved, loved, loved to study that field.
I know of a guy, who knows a guy, that took sports management in Toronto someplace.
He's an assistant GM for a AAA ball club now.
Another guy I know is helping with the Windsor Spitfires.
What I wouldn't do to go back and do something similar.