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Originally Posted by shugknight |
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No she's the one that is moving on. She's going out with other people and living her life. Yes, they're related to your circle of friends, but they're not your immediate friends. It's not like she's hanging out with your close friends and waiting for you to show up at the bar you and your friends are always hanging out at. She's hanging out with your friend's wife, not your best friend.
And stop talking to her. How do you expect to move on if you continue to talk to her? She tells you her life is awesome, well then be happy with her and tell her how your life has been awesome. If your life hasn't been awesome, go out, live your life, and make it awesome so you stop thinking about this girl.
And she got a gym membership to a place your friend works at. Is this the same gym you work out at? If not, then who cares?!?! Do you really feel insecure that she's going to go up to your friend, talk about you, then have your friend come back and tell you all the details? If he does that, then he truly isn't your friend. Bros before hoes.
And whether or not it's intentional, don't let it affect you. Problem solved. If you're going out, having fun, dating other people, doing your own thing, she should be the last thing on your mind because it will be occupied with other more important things. But because you're not doing this and constantly think "what if she does this" or "why is she doing this" then you're simply not moving on.
If you truly want to get over her and move on with your life, eliminate all forms of communication with her.
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Good ish suge. Appreciate it bro. Btw, it is a gym I will be working out at. She knew that too. And yes, it is about being insecure. Her newfound awesomeness is being rubbed in my face because I dumped her. Why do you think she's getting a gym membership anyway. She never wanted to do so when we were together.
As far as the friend thing goes, I would have liked to consider them my immediate since we all hang out together quite often. Like I mentioned before, she made it seem like she never quite liked my buddies wife and only as an associate and now she wants to stay in touch. Fishy.
Also, I forgot to mention how and why I feel this way. My babys mom did some of the exact same things. To the point where I actually did have to rid ppl out of my life. This trick had a couple of my once friends help her move a long time ago. Thing is, despite me being in my childs and my friends life, nobody decided to mention this to me until months after it happened. So yes, all the while I sit in my friends faces, they were in direct communication with my BM and kept it secret for whatever reasons. So I'm adamant on this not happening again. Which is the reason why I feel so bitch right now.
I like you advice tho, I'm trying to take heed.